We had a miscarriage at 20 weeks. Will the doctors find the cause so that we can move on
Coping with the loss of a baby well into pregnancy is difficult and upsetting. Many women ask themselves why a miscarriage happened and feel unable to move on until that important question is answered. Unfortunately, unless this was a recurrent
miscarriage of three or more, there may not be an investigation, although it may be suggested that you have a cervical stitch in future pregnancies to stop the cervix from dilating too early It may be worth talking to a counselor who is trained to support women and families through such difficult times; your doctor or midwife may be able to refer you. You may find that discussing your miscarriage directly with a health professional helps to answer any concerns you or your partner have, and by communicating in this way you will have started to move forward and may begin to feel
able to consider planning another pregnancy